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i feel like 100 million things have happened since august,

which is usually the case when i get around to write on here.

i haven't written anywhere really in a long time,

but i've got a lot on my mind,

so i guess i'll start with that.

when i got back to school in september (and should have been registering for graduation),

i found out that i'd be at tech for another quarter to take one class

(which is now at 8 am 3 days  a week...hah)

before they'd let me graduate.

it was a really distressing and confusing time because

i was so convinced that my plans wouldn't change.

later on, you'll find (as i did) that my plans don't ever stop changing and

that it's pretty much pointless for me to attempt to make plans in the first place.

and of course now that i'm still here,

i'm really thankful for the extended opportunity to be a better person to people i've met here.

and while some days i'm bored out of my mind,

i know that i'm still here for a reason,

and i'm glad to be discovering that.

in my spare time,

i'm taking up baking, which i'm getting pretty good at.

i'm also plugging into crossroads more,

which has been really wonderful.

besides being a baptist church, 

which isn't especially my thing, but i can dig it,

it has everything that i could want in a church.

everyone's so nice and they're creepy like me in that they know about people without even having met them.

they knew about me, which is really surprising for some reason.

being with these people and getting more in touch with God through relationships and encouragement from them has made me full of joy.

it makes my week every week.

i also got a puppy!

her name is sassafras,

and she's pretty much the cutest dog ever.

she's a jumper and a biter,

but she's my sweet girl.

today's actually her 4 month birthday,

and if she wasn't at my parents' house,

i'd be there to spoil her and make her wear a birthday hat.

thankfully (and surprisingly), she's pretty willing to subject herself to my torturous outfits.

she has reindeer antlers...AND a raincoat.

pretty freakin cute.

i feel like getting a pet is an insight into having children.

so precious...and expensive.

financially, getting a pet probably wasn't the best idea.

but i'm learning how to manage that and all the responsibilities that come with being a good dog owner.

during thanksgiving break,

stephen and i broke up.

it's still so crazy to me...to lose the person i thought i was going to marry.

he was my best friend, which was the best part of our relationship and the very reason i thought i would be spending the rest of my life with him.

i know it's all for the best

AND that i'm definitely ok.

God doesn't give anyone a change that they can't handle,

and it's certainly not the end of the world.

i continue to surprise myself with how ok i've been.

i'll see him for the first time this weekend...

hopefully i haven't been lying to myself too much about all that.

it should be interesting.

it's made me questions relationships a lot though, lately.

mostly because people change best friends all the time...

we go through life ending up with numerous best friends and without a lot of them as well,

whether it's due to distance or stages of life or disagreements or circles of friends.

how do you know that you're actually going to be that intimate with any best friend for the rest of your life?

how do you start all over again?

we always manage to do it, but it seems like a process that just happens and that it isn't one you can just figure out.

i really want to figure it out though.

until then, i'll continue to learn more about myself and what it takes to be a good person in any relationship.

it's so important!

i'm still planning to move to baton rouge.

i'd made up my mind with both scenarios (with or without stephen) accounted for a long time ago,

and now i'm really set on AND excited to be around more of my friends.

even thinking about looking for a job is crazy stressing me out.

i'm not particularly sure where to begin,

but i'm hoping to get a lot accomplished over christmas break.

i've been going to the career center to get a potential head start...

we'll see how that turns out.

wish me luck.